Life is Great… Just know how to live it!!!!!!!!!

You never know what to expect next... We are supposed to blame ourselves for everything that occurs in our life. Rather we should to take the responsibility for what happens in our life so we feel more in control and realize all of our choices. A lot of times we can feel like a victim of circumstances. Yet life comes from us, not at us. So, don’t get shattered by the ups and downs of life.

The biggest problem is that everyone has learned to blame everything and everyone for situations they do not like in their life. People can blame work spouse, children and everything else for their life being stressful, not realizing they have the power within themselves to change their beliefs and attitudes to create a whole different life. All these thoughts remain in the subconscious and drain us of our energy. We are exhausted at the end of the day. To try to overcompensate, we can learn to control others to make us feel better.

Life is Suppose to Be Easier.....

Ok... well, how do we start? First, by becoming aware that life is supposed to be easier. Yes... there will be challenges, but we create a lot of stress ourselves. Take responsibility for whatever is going on in your life you do not want. Don't take it out on others. Notice and stop negative patterns by addressing the subconscious reasons why you may still be thinking and doing this. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Have the courage to notice what you are doing to create or allow these particular things you no longer want and stop projecting it all onto someone else. Feelings need to be addressed so we can move out of them, heal, and forgive ourselves and others. Stop suffering. It makes us feel sorry for ourselves and creates others to feel responsible for us. Being grateful for what you have changes yourself and creates more happiness to come into your life. As the saying goes; "There are no problems, only solutions." Smile more often and take an interest in others. It's catchy. Notice in others what you do not like in yourself and have the courage to change. We cannot change others, only ourselves. Have faith…